Monday, November 4, 2013

9 months old!

Happy Halloween!


Aubrey is on the left, Paige on the right.  They were candy corns for Halloween.  Here's a picture of Aubrey and then Paige at the pumpkin patch.



We probably won't be able to put them in the same costumes again because they'll be old enough to have a say in it next year, haha.

The girls have been doing really well over the past month.  Andrea and I continue to be amazed at their growth and mini-milestones.

About a month ago we had an appointment with the NICU high risk follow up clinic.  We met with one of the NICU doctors and an occupational therapist.  According to their assessment, the girls were almost developmentally on track with their adjusted age.  They were a little behind on tummy-time stuff, meaning they absolutely hated tummy time and they didn't support their upper bodies with their arms like they should have been doing.  After the clinic visit, we went upstairs to the NICU and got to see most of the doctors and dayshift nurses that took care of the girls.  It was really neat seeing them all again and for them to be able to see the girls as regular babies without all the cords and tubes hanging from their bodies.  The girls loved all the attention that they got and were all smiles.

We've been working on tummy time a lot since then.  The girls have gone from screaming within a couple of minutes after being placed on their tummies a month ago, to tolerating it very well and actually playing a little bit for up to 20 minutes at a time now.  The girls still aren't rolling over on purpose yet, but occasionally during tummy time they'll get way up on their hands and roll over accidentally.  They always have a surprised look on their face anytime this happens - "whoa, what just happened?" - so it's pretty funny to see.

We're currently feeding the girls solid foods twice each day now, and they're both doing a good job eating. Aubrey typically eats more than Paige and is a lot easier to feed, but Paige is catching on quickly.  We've fed them all sorts of pureed vegetables and fruits.  Their favorite foods so far are bananas, pears, carrots, and peas.  They weren't too fond of spinach, and aren't very interested in apple sauce.  They really like eating banana flavored Baby Mum-Mums, which are thin rice crackers.  We usually feed the girls in their bouncers, and our dog does a very thorough cleaning of the bouncers after feeding time is done.  Here's the dog getting comfy in one of the bouncers.


Here are two videos of the girls we recorded about a month ago.  Sorry about the hair, I tried giving them both mohawks, but they wouldn't hold still enough for me to do a good job.  Aubrey is in peach, Paige in yellow.




The girls are starting to interact and play with each other.  When we lay them down next to each other, they touch each other's faces and giggle (until one gets ahold of an ear or a handful of hair, then half the giggles stop).  Paige gets really excited whenever she sees Aubrey.  Aubrey is a little interested in her sister, but doesn't get as excited as Paige does.

Both girls are getting very good at grabbing toys and bringing them to their mouths to knaw on.  Despite all the fun toys Andrea and I and other people have gotten the girls, their favorite thing to play with is still plain old paper.  Here's Paige chewing on a paper bag, despite having the much better option of chewing on the apple slices in front of her.


Both girls are sleeping through the night and we have stopped doing late-night feeds.  They usually fall asleep around 7 or 8, we change their diapers and feed them again around 9 or 10, and then they sleep until about 6:30.  Occasionally one of the girls will have trouble falling asleep, but they never wake up in the middle of night (yet).  Napping, on the other hand, has been somewhat of an issue.  They both hate being put down for naps, even when they're so tired they can barely stay awake.  I guess we should be grateful that they're at least good sleepers.

With the exception of Paige still taking a breathing treatment called Pulmicort, both girls are off all of their medications!  This had made feeding routines much easier.  Paige got the OK to stop oxygen about a month ago, so we don't have to deal with that at night anymore, either.

Here's a fun one of Aubrey just as mommy was finishing giving her a bath.

 
Both girls have had a couple of follow up appointments over the past month.  Paige was seen by the same pediatric pulmonologist who did a consult for her while she was in the NICU (see post from April 6, 2013 for what happened then).  He was happy with how her lungs have improved, and we have a follow up appointment with him in 3 months just to make sure everything is still going OK.  Just as we learned in the NICU, he reiterated that the best treatment for chronic lung disease is growth and weight gain.  He said that Paige will probably have to continue taking the Pulmicort breathing treatment for many more months, and that the best indicator of whether or not it's still needed will be how she does when she gets sick.  If getting sick puts her in the hospital or she has to be treated by a medical professional, she still needs Pulmicort.  If she does fine with just mommy and daddy's help, she can start to be weaned off of it.  We also discussed life-long consequences of chronic lung disease.  He said that the most noticeable difference would probably be how well she can handle high altitude.  She will most likely huff and puff a lot more than you and I if she were high up in the Sierras.  We also determined that she would most likely not have the lung capacity to be an Olympic swimmer.

Paige also had a plastic surgery appointment in order to assess her head shape.  She has a noticeable flat area on the back right part of her head.  Two things have caused this.  First, she was intubated for a very long time after she was born.  While intubated, babies have to lie on the side of their heads.  Despite nurses' best efforts to rotate sides, one side usually gets a disproportionate amount of "down" time due to either medical necessity or nurse oversight (flat head worries are not a primary concern when you are worried about keeping a baby alive).  Also, Paige has a slight case of torticollis that causes her to favor turning her head to the right while she sleeps.  The torticollis has nothing to do with being a preemie, but is more common with twins due to space constraints while they are in mommy's tummy.

The plastic surgeon did some measurements and determined that Paige's head symmetry is off by 4.6%.  If a baby's head symmetry is off by 6% or more, they recommend one of the head helmets.   She doesn't meet the 6% threshold, so she doesn't need a helmet for now.  Head helmets are only effective if started by 8 months of age.  Paige's adjusted age is 6 months, so the plastic surgeon wants to see her again at 7 1/2 months adjusted age just to make sure she doesn't need a helmet.  The plastic surgeon also gave us a referral to physical therapy so that we can get some tips and strategies for better head positioning for Paige.

Aubrey had an appointment with a hematologist.  She had 3 unusual bleeding events while in the NICU, so the NICU referred us to the hematologist.  Some of my side of the family (Josh writes this blog, in case you didn't know) has a bleeding disorder called Von Willebrand Disease that gets passed down to half of the kids born to a parent who has it.  I was unlucky during the baby-making chromosomal lottery and got stuck with it thanks to my dad.  Aubrey probably got unlucky during the baby-making chromosomal lottery and got stuck with it thanks to her dad (me).  (In case you're wondering about Paige, she was also unlucky during the baby-making chromosomal lottery because she got stuck with me as a dad, haha).  Laboratory tests for Von Willebrand Disease require lots of blood.  Aubrey is pretty small so the hematologist, Andrea, and I thought it best to hold off on having her tested until she was a little bigger and had more blood in that body of hers.  We'll have her tested sometime in mid- to late-2014.  As I write this, I realize most of you don't know what Von Willebrand disease is.  In a nut shell, the disease makes it makes it hard for your blood to form clots, which results in easy bruising, lots of bloody noses in elementary and middle school, and (for girls) abnormally heavy periods.  There are various medications that can reduce the severity of the bruising and bleeding.

We also had a follow up hearing screening with the audiology department, something that is automatically done with preemies even if they pass the newborn screening like our girls did.  Our girls were not quite developmentally mature enough for the screening, so we're going to repeat it in a couple months.  The screening test consisted of playing quiet sounds from different speakers in a soundproof room while Andrea or I held one of the girls.  After the quiet sounds, Disney characters would light up and "dance" above the speaker that played the noise for a few seconds as a positive reward for finding the sound.  (I passed the test with flying colors, despite Andrea's persistent concerns that I'm deaf and never hear anything she says).  The girls got bored with dancing Minnie Mouse after about 3 dances, and started playing with their own feet.  The audiologists then did a passive measurement of the girls' hearing, which they both passed.  We're going to re-do the dancing Minnie Mouse show in about 2 months.

Both girls will be getting Synagis shots once a month to help protect them against RSV (respiratory syncytial virus) during the cold and flu season.  They get their first shot this week.  Babies born before 28 weeks are supposed to get these shots during their first and possibly second winter.  RSV usually sends preemies to the hospital for a few weeks and puts them on ventilators, so if Aubrey and Paige are hard to find this winter, it's because they're trying to avoid getting RSV.

That's enough medical stuff.  Here are two pictures.  The first is a picture of Paige's foot 5 minutes after she was born.  The second is that same foot 9 months later.



We did some family photos at Old Poway Park a couple weeks ago.  Here are some highlights.  Aubrey is with Mommy and Paige is with Daddy in all photos except the last one.







Height and weight time!  The girls are catching up on the growth chart, but still not on it.  They are almost at the 3rd percentile for height.  One of these days I'll post the actual growth chart that I use to track them.

Aubrey:
     Day 1 -     2 lbs 2 oz      14 inches
     Day 8 -     2 lbs 7 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 11 oz
     Day 27 -   3 lbs 1 oz
  (1 month)
     Day 36 -   3 lbs 4 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 7 oz      16 inches
     Day 56 -   4 lbs 0 oz
  (2 months)
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 9 oz      16 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 14 oz    17 1/2 inches
     Day 80 -   5 lbs 5 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 14 oz    18 inches
  (3 months)
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 6 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 15 oz
     Day 118 - 7 lbs 6 oz      19 1/2 inches
  (4 months)
     Day 126 - 7 lbs 8 oz
     Day 134 - 8 lbs 0 oz      20 1/4 inches
     5 months - 9 lbs 2 oz
     6 months - 10 lbs 6 oz    21 1/4 inches
     8 months ~12 lbs 12 oz  (bathroom scale method)
     9 months - 13 lbs 14 oz  25 1/2 inches

Paige:
     Day 1 -     1 lbs 13 oz    14 1/2 inches
     Day 8 -     1 lbs 12 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 2 oz
     Day 27 -   2 lbs 10 oz
  (1 month)
     Day 36 -   2 lbs 13 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 5 oz      16 1/2 inches
     Day 56 -   3 lbs 10 oz
  (2 months)
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 1 oz      17 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 4 oz      18 inches
     Day 80 -   4 lbs 14 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 0 oz      18 inches
  (3 months)
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 2 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 7 oz
     Day 118 - 6 lbs 12 oz    19 inches
  (4 months)
     Day 126 - 7 lbs 1 oz
     Day 134 - 7 lbs 4 oz      19 3/4 inches
     5 months - 7 lbs 14 oz
     6 months - 9 lbs 1 oz     21 1/2 inches
     8 months ~11 lbs 3 oz   (bathroom scale method)
     9 months - 12 lbs 9 oz   25 1/2 inches

Oh, and should anyone care, I went through all the posts, standardized the size of all pictures, and upgraded significantly the quality of the videos I posted the first 6 months (and made sure that they all work now).

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

8 months!

Sorry for taking so long to update the blog.  I had intended to post a while ago, but never got around to doing it.  The girls are almost 8 months old (almost 5 months adjusted age)! They have been doing well and making good developmental progress. Here's the most recent picture I have of the two of them, Aubrey left Paige right.


They're both a bit more chubby from last post, and they're both kind of bald around the sides of their head where they rub from contact with whatever they're lying on.  You'll also notice that Paige doesn't have the nasal canula tubing on her face in the picture above. A few weeks back we did an overnight oxygen saturation study, and we were given the OK remove the tubing during the day as long as we put it back on at night.  We hope to soon be done with the oxygen for good. Here Paige is all smiles the first day she got the canula off her face.  The redness on her cheeks is caused by removing the tape that secures the canula.  It usually goes away after a few hours.


After posting the two previous pictures, I noticed the girls are wearing the same outfits, just swapped, haha.

The girls' eyes are doing great also.  Aubrey was given the all clear for ROP in July, and Paige got the all clear at her next appointment in August.  The girls will have a different eye exam in November that will measure how well they see, kind of the same exam that you or I get to determine if we need glasses.

Here are the girls after a rough morning, Aubrey left, Paige right. This shows the side baldness pretty well.


We started introducing solid foods to the girls about a month ago.  Aubrey really enjoys most of the foods and will eat a lot.  Paige just tolerates it for the most part and doesn't seem to get much down.  Here's Paige getting a spoonful of sweet potatoes.


Here's Paige after one-too-many spoonfuls of sweet potatoes.


Here are both girls during feeding time, Aubrey is the one being fed.


Here they are after a hard-fought spinach battle. Paige left, Aubrey right.


Here's a video of the girls (mostly of Aubrey) eating bananas a few days ago.


For now, the solid foods are meant to be exploratory and not for nutrition.  The girls are still getting fortified formula, and they eat between 20-25 ounces each day.  Aubrey is very easy to feed most of the time.  Paige is still a struggle to feed; she can get really worked up and mad, and then it takes a while to calm her down enough so that she'll eat.

Aubrey starting cooing about a month ago, and occasionally babbles. Paige just started cooing a couple weeks ago, so she is not quite as vocal as her sister.  Both girls have been giggling the past couple of weeks.

Both girls have discovered their hands and feet.  Paige plays with her feet all the time.  They also have very basic reaching, grabbing, and putting things in their mouth skills. When we lay them next to each other they'll try to grab each others arms or legs and put whatever appendage they managed to secure in their mouth.  It's funny to watch until one gets a fistful of the other's hair and screaming ensues (I guess that's kind of funny, too). Paige is a little more adept at the reaching and grabbing skill than her sister is. She even has a favorite rattle, and whenever Aubrey starts playing with it, Paige will stop whatever she's doing and just watch Aubrey play with it. I suppose that's the start of some sort of sister rivalry. Here's a video of Paige during the first couple of days that she discovered her feet.


Neither one of the girls is rolling over yet, and they have both decided that they don't like tummy time very much anymore.  Aubrey is pretty good at pushing herself around using her legs.  The other day, we put her down on a play mat.  When we checked in on her after a few minutes she had pushed herself halfway across our living room floor and got herself stuck against the couch.

The girls love it when we sing songs that have some sort of hand movement along with the song, like the Itsy Bitsy Spider and 5 Little Monkeys Swinging In A Tree (or whatever those songs are called).

They also really enjoy being outside.  Sometimes they'll be crying for who knows what reason, and as soon as we step outside with them they'll calm down, and just quietly look around.  They seem to be espcially interested in tree leaves.  Stroller walks in the morning have been one of Andrea's go-to actions in the battle against cranky babies.  Here's a happy Aubrey.


We've taken the girls to the zoo (Paige left Aubrey right)


And to dog beach with our dog (Aubrey first picture, Paige second)



The girls attract a ton of attention everywhere we go due to the novelty of being twins.  We went to the zoo with some friends that have a baby boy about the same age as our girls.  As always happens, random strangers would stop and look at the girls and ask us all about them.  Our friends were surprised at all the attention our girls were getting.  We laughed about it and said that happens everywhere we take the girls together.  When Andrea or I just take one of them out (while the other stays behind at home with mommy or daddy), we don't attract any attention.  Kind of funny.

Another milestone is that the girls are now sleeping in their own room and each in their own crib.  It seems like almost everyone sleeps better with this arrangement.  I say almost because my sleep has not improved.  The girls have never been able to wake me up at night, so I still sleep good (Andrea not so secretly hates me for that).  Andrea sleeps better, Paige doesn't feel Aubrey kicking the mattress anymore, and Aubrey is further away from Paige when Paige cries. Paige on left, Aubrey on right.


Aubrey sleeps through the night every night.  Paige still wakes up most nights because she gets hungry, so I usually feed her around 1 or 2 AM.

Andrea and I are excited because we have a high-risk follow up appointment this week with one of the NICU doctors.  This will be the first time they are officially assessed (being a special education teacher, Andrea has been assessing them since they came home) for developmental delays.  It will also be nice to see everyone at NICU again.

Weight time! The girls are still pretty small. They wear size 1 diapers and 3-month clothes.

Aubrey:
     Day 1 -     2 lbs 2 oz     14 inches
     Day 8 -     2 lbs 7 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 11 oz
     Day 27 -   3 lbs 1 oz
     Day 36 -   3 lbs 4 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 7 oz     16 inches
     Day 56 -   4 lbs 0 oz
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 9 oz     16 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 14 oz   17 1/2 inches
     Day 80 -   5 lbs 5 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 14 oz   18 inches
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 6 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 15 oz
     Day 118 - 7 lbs 6 oz     19 1/2 inches
     Day 126 - 7 lbs 8 oz
     Day 134 - 8 lbs 0 oz     20 1/4 inches
     5 months - 9 lbs 2 oz
     6 months - 10 lbs 6 oz   21 1/4 inches

     8 months ~12 lbs 12 oz (bathroom scale method)

Paige:
     Day 1 -     1 lbs 13 oz   14 1/2 inches
     Day 8 -     1 lbs 12 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 2 oz
     Day 27 -   2 lbs 10 oz
     Day 36 -   2 lbs 13 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 5 oz     16 1/2 inches
     Day 56 -   3 lbs 10 oz
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 1 oz     17 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 4 oz     18 inches
     Day 80 -   4 lbs 14 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 0 oz     18 inches
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 2 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 7 oz
     Day 118 - 6 lbs 12 oz   19 inches
     
Day 126 - 7 lbs 1 oz
     Day 134 - 7 lbs 4 oz     19 3/4 inches
     5 months - 7 lbs 14 oz
     6 months - 9 lbs 1 oz     21 1/2 inches

     8 months ~11 lbs 3 oz (bathroom scale method)

Monday, July 29, 2013

6 months old and home for almost 2 months!

The girls are now 6 months old!  Their adjusted age is 3 months.  Here are a couple of pictures of our little old ladies.  They were moving around a lot, so I didn't really get sharp pictures.  I tried explaining to them the importance of sitting still, but they wouldn't listen to me :)  Paige on the left, Aubrey on right.




They're really starting to "grow up" on us.  Both smile a lot when we talk to them and they've discovered that their hands fit in their mouths very well.  Paige will sometimes give us a good giggle, and Aubrey coos at us like she's trying to have a conversation when we talk to her.  They're a lot of fun when they aren't cranky and tired.

The girls had an eye exam a few weeks ago, and things seem to be going very well with their eyes.  The retinopathy of prematurity is resolved in both girls.  Aubrey's retinas are developed just as they should be for her age, and Paige's are almost there.  Her retina blood vessels have not fully grown in yet, but the ophthalmologist says that he has never seen a case where the ROP resolves and the blood vessels don't eventually grow in correctly.  He is not worried about her, but she will have another exam in August just to make sure everything is OK.

Both girls are eating relatively well and gaining weight.  Paige had been eating really sloppy until last week when we experimented with a different bottle.  With the new bottles (which we had already tried and not had luck with two months ago), she now eats nearly leak-free.  I'll include the weight/height chart below, but as of July 25, Aubrey weighed 10 lbs 6 oz and was just a smidgeon under 21 and a half inches.  Paige weighed in at 9 lbs 1 oz and was just a hair taller than her sister at 21 and a half inches.  We took the girls to church for the first time a week ago, and it's weird seeing babies that are only a month or two old just dwarfing our "6-month-old" girls.  Paige still wears newborn diapers, and Aubrey wears size ones but could reasonably fit into newborns if blowouts weren't such an issue with her.

We've started introducing baby cookies to our girls.  They seem to enjoy the flavor, and the end result is usually a lot of drool and crumbs all over everything.  We'll probably introduce rice cereal and pureed veggies in the next few weeks just to give them exposure to foods.

The girls got their 6-month immunizations a couple of days ago.  They did not seem to enjoy that very much.  Aubrey screamed like I've never heard before.

Andrea's grandma came for a visit, so we had 4 generations of girls in our home for a few days while Andrea's mom was still here.  Aubrey on left, Paige on right.


Here are some pictures of our girls with their only great-grandparent.  Andrea thought they were funny pictures, so if great-grandma gets mad, it's Andrea's fault :)

Here's great-grandma laughing while the girls are screaming.  We captured everyone with open mouths.  Aubrey left, Paige right.


Our dog lived with great-grandma for about 6 months while Andrea and the girls were in the hospital, so she wanted to show some appreciation by giving her a lick.  I got lucky and caught great-grandma's and Paige's reaction to the incoming puppy kiss.


Both girls really enjoy watching our dog play around.

Paige has kind of been turning into a mommy's girl.  There are times when nothing I can do will calm her down, and then Andrea will take her and she'll calm down in a matter of seconds.  After I get past my feelings of being rejected by my own daughter, we have a good laugh over it, haha.  Aubrey is happy with whomever gives her attention and talks to her.

Here are some pics of babies with mommy and daddy.  Aubrey is on the left, Paige on the right.



Weight and height time!

Aubrey:
     Day 1 -     2 lbs 2 oz     14 inches
     Day 8 -     2 lbs 7 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 11 oz
     Day 27 -   3 lbs 1 oz
     Day 36 -   3 lbs 4 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 7 oz     16 inches
     Day 56 -   4 lbs 0 oz
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 9 oz     16 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 14 oz   17 1/2 inches
     Day 80 -   5 lbs 5 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 14 oz   18 inches
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 6 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 15 oz 
     Day 118 - 7 lbs 6 oz     19 1/2 inches
     Day 126 - 7 lbs 8 oz
     Day 134 - 8 lbs 0 oz     20 1/4 inches
     5 months - 9 lbs 2 oz
     6 months - 10 lbs 6 oz   21 1/4 inches

Paige:
     Day 1 -     1 lbs 13 oz   14 1/2 inches
     Day 8 -     1 lbs 12 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 2 oz
     Day 27 -   2 lbs 10 oz
     Day 36 -   2 lbs 13 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 5 oz     16 1/2 inches
     Day 56 -   3 lbs 10 oz
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 1 oz     17 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 4 oz     18 inches
     Day 80 -   4 lbs 14 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 0 oz     18 inches
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 2 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 7 oz
     Day 118 - 6 lbs 12 oz   19 inches
     Day 126 - 7 lbs 1 oz
     Day 134 - 7 lbs 4 oz     19 3/4 inches

     5 months - 7 lbs 14 oz
     6 months - 9 lbs 1 oz     21 1/2 inches

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

1 month home update

Sorry for not posting recently.  The girls keep us a little busy, and I kind of lost track of how long it had been since I last posted.  The girls' adjusted age is 2 and a half months (11 weeks).

Overall the girls have been doing well.  They eat, sleep, poop, and cry.  Compared to when we brought them home, they are much more engaged with their surroundings now.  Aubrey especially loves to be held upright over our shoulder so that she can look around.  Also, both girls are enjoying tummy time.  Here's a picture of Aubrey working her arm and back muscles.


Both girls have been starting to smile a lot, too.  It seems that both girls give us lots of smiles every time we take off their pants, be it for a diaper change or a bath or whatever.  It's pretty funny.  It's hard to get a picture or video of it, though.  Every time they see the camera or one of our phones pointed at them, they get really serious and focused.  Here's a video of Paige smiling a little bit.  Andrea is getting her ready for a bath, so her hair is really nasty.


Both girls have also started to discover their hands.  They like to put their hands up to their lips and will occasionally give their hands a lick.

We got our dog back with us a few weeks ago.  Here she is trying to reclaim her territory on the couch.


Canela has been tolerating the girls pretty well.  Every so often when they both cry at the same time she'll retreat into our guest room for a little peace and quiet.

My parents came to visit the girls a couple weeks ago.  My dad hadn't seen the girls since February when they were both in incubators and intubated, so he got to hold them for the first time.  Here are Grandma and Grandpa Roberts with Aubrey on the left and Paige on the right.


When this picture was taken, Aubrey and Paige were their newest grand kids.  The girls lost that title about 2 weeks ago to their cousin who, despite being 5 months younger, is about 2 pounds heavier than they are.

Andrea's parents also came in for a visit this past week.  This was the first time Andrea's dad was able to meet the girls.  We took Andrea's parents to the San Diego Zoo Safari Park with the girls.  The girls did pretty well there, but made sure we knew every time they were hungry.  Here's a picture of Grandma and Grandpa Moore with Paige on the left and Aubrey on the right.


Sorry about the weird lighting.  The girls were starting to cry and I couldn't figure out how to manually turn the flash on before we abandoned the photo shoot. Here's a funny picture of Aubrey screaming while being held by Grandpa Moore.


The girls' 5-year-old niece sent them some hair bows, so we put them on.  Paige is on the left, Aubrey the right.

 


Both girls are gaining weight at about 4 ounces each week.  As you can tell from the picture above, Aubrey is a little more successful at gaining weight than Paige is.  When we first came home, we were struggling with getting Paige to eat enough, but she has really improved over the past few weeks.  Paige normally eats about 8 times each day, and Aubrey eats about 6 times per day.  We still wake Paige up at night to feed her, but have stopped waking up Aubrey.  With Aubrey, we find that she just doesn't eat between 9 PM and 5 AM no matter how hard we try.  She often goes 10 hours through the night without eating, and then pigs out during the day.  Paige is more of an every 2 hour snacker.

The girls had another eye exam a few weeks back, and the ophthalmologist was happy with their progress.  We have another appointment sometime this week, and if all goes well it should be the last one for ROP screening.

A question that we get asked a lot that we are still not sure how to answer is "how old are your girls?"  If we tell someone that the girls are 5 months old, they give us a weird look because they are still the size of newborns.  If we say 2 and a half months, which is their adjusted age, it feels like lying.  In the comments section of one of the previous posts, I explained a little bit about how the girls are assessed and viewed age-wise from a medical standpoint.  I'll go into a little more detail here if anyone cares to know.

For about the first two years, the girls' doctors treat them as if they were actually born on their due date, which was April 22.  This is called their age adjusted for gestation.  Height, weight, and major milestones like grabbing things, mouthing, eye tracking, crawling, cooing, babbling, and whatever else babies eventually do is assessed based on their adjusted age.  For these aforementioned things, the girls are viewed as being 11 weeks old.  That Andrea and I are aware of, the only 2 things that are not adjusted for gestational age are immunizations and introduction of solid foods.  We will be introducing them to solid foods towards the end of this month.

As a general rule, preemies that do not have significant mental or physical disabilities or delays are expected to catch up to their full term peers by about the age of two.  This means that a person should not be able to tell the difference from a 2-year-old preemie and a 2-year-old full term baby.

That being said, a preemie will always be a preemie.  The time that preemies lose that would have otherwise been spent inside mommy can not be regained, despite the best medical care and professional services that the world can offer.  All of us probably know someone who was born premature and is now living a perfectly "normal" life with no noticeable problems.  In nearly every case, that person would be even more "normal" if they had been born full term.  The analogy I think of is like getting a broken bone.  Sure, the bone will heal itself and be fully functional in 6 weeks or so, but it will never be the same bone it was prior to breaking.  A radiologist will always be able to look at an x-ray of your bone and see that it had been broken.

Our girls may or may not have physical or mental delays.  It's a little too early to tell that.  But if they had been born at full term rather than 3 months premature, they would have been stronger, bigger, healthier, and more mature mentally than they are now.  That's just the way it is.

My car, which has well over 300,000 miles on it, was our only vehicle that could accommodate both girls' car seats and all the other junk that travels with them wherever they go.  So Andrea went out and got this ugly thing a few days ago.


What it lacks in looks it makes up for in practicality.  It's actually a pretty sweet car as long as you're inside of it.  I'm not sure why car makers can't find a way to put sliding doors on, say, a Chevy Tahoe.  Oh well.

At last weigh ins a week ago, Paige was 7 lbs 14 oz, and Aubrey was 9 lbs 2 oz

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Happy Father's Day!

Not much to report. The girls' adjusted age will be 8 weeks tomorrow.


Paige is on the left, Aubrey on the right.

Sunday, June 9, 2013

Days 127-130, then home! - May 30-June 8

After 130 days, the girls finally got to come home.  Here we are leaving the NICU as a family on Sunday June 2.  They were born on January 24 and are the equivalent of a 6-week old baby.


While we're extremely excited to be home, it's kind of sad to leave the NICU.  We became good friends with a lot of the staff at the NICU, especially some of the nurses that frequently took care of our girls.  Now that the girls are both home, we miss the around-the-clock care that allowed us to get so much sleep at night :)

We also want to thank everyone who has helped us out in any way during our long antepartum and NICU journey.  Andrea and I truly appreciate everything that you all have done for us, and this would have been much more difficult without your help.

As you can see from the oxygen tank in the picture, Paige came home on oxygen.  We're not sure how long she'll have to be on it, but it will probably be at least a few months before she's taken off of it.  We now have a bunch of oxygen tanks in our home.

Before we left the NICU, both girls had hearing tests and passed.  Here's Paige with all the sensors attached to her head during her test.


Aubrey's heart rate and breathing monitor machine kept saying that she would stop breathing for about 20 seconds every few hours.  Anyone accustomed to hospital monitors knows that those things give off false alarms ALL THE TIME, and every time that alarm went off while we were in the room, we saw that she was clearly breathing just fine.  However, to be on the safe side she had a 12-hour apnea test performed.  Basically, the test made sure air was moving in and out of her nose.  Here she is with her mustache sensor.


That test showed she was fine.

After both girls were cleared medically, we went home.  It was strange having both of them home the first few days.  It was almost like we were just taking a field trip from the NICU.  Now that we've been home for almost a week, being home with them is starting to feel normal.  Here's Aubrey (L) and Paige (R) being held by me the day they came home.


Both girls, but especially Paige, have been much more calm since we've been home.  Paige would get really agitated any time anyone at the hospital messed with her, and she doesn't get messed with so much at home.

The one good thing about being stuck in the NICU for 4 months is that I think our transition to being new parents at home has been easier than the experience of most new parents.  Andrea has long since healed from her C-section, so we don't have to worry about that.  We already know our girls very well, so we're usually able to figure out what their problem is pretty quickly when they squawk at us.  We also already know how to comfort them and help them fall asleep.  I can't imagine how crazy being home for the first few weeks would be if our girls were born full-term and came straight home.

Here the girls are posing for a picture in the same bassinet (or whatever they're called).  This is against NICU rules, so naturally it was one of the first things we did after we got home, haha.  Paige is on the left.


The girls are kind of weird in that they make great eye contact with adults and seem interested in whomever holds them, but they seem to ignore each other for the most part and never look at each other even when they're side by side.  Maybe we're noticing the aftereffects of a womb feud or something.  Here's another picture of the two girls, Paige on the left.


We went on our first walk with the girls on Tuesday.  The legs and arms you see belong to Paige, the head belongs to Aubrey.


Nurse Kristen, one of the nurses that we became good friends with during our stay in the NICU, came over one morning for a quick visit with the girls.  Aubrey is on the left in the picture.


Here's mommy holding the mute button on both girls.  (Paige on left)


Andrea's mom has been here the past week helping us out with stuff.  Here's grandma holding the girls.  Aubrey is on the left.


If you remember from my last few posts, the thing holding the girls back from coming home was inability to eat enough.  Since she's been home, Aubrey has been eating a ton.  Our nickname for her has become "little piggy."  She's still getting Enfamil AR fortified to 24 calories per ounce, and she eats 17 to 20 ounces each day (her required minimum in the hospital was 16 ounces).  Paige has been having a little bit of a harder time.  She was getting fortified breast milk in the hospital, and a few days before we were discharged her milk was increased from 24 to 26 calories per ounce.  The 26 calorie milk ended up being extremely constipating for her, so after a few days of watching her scream every time she tried to poo, we gave her plain breast milk for a few days to get her system flowing again.  It has seemed to do the trick, so we're going to slowly fortify her milk again to as strong as possible without plugging her up.  She's been an ounce or two short of her daily NICU goal of 15 ounces, but the pediatrician doesn't care as long as she is still gaining weight on track with the weight curves.  Here's Paige's typical look after getting what she thinks is a full meal.


We were trying to wake her up so by letting a little cool air hit her skin so that she would eat more.  It didn't work out for us, so we got our revenge and got a picture of her.

We had our first pediatrician appointment on Thursday and both girls are gaining weight, so that's a good thing.  We also had an eye exam this week, and both girls' eyes continue to improve.  The ophthalmologist thinks the ROP will be resolved in a month or two.

I thought I would end the post with some general "stats" and other random info:

Number of consecutive days someone in our family was hospitalized (Andrea then girls):  157

Approximate number of miles Andrea and I drove to and from the hospital:  10,000

Approximate number of X-rays each girl had:  100

Approximate number of blood transfusions each girl had:  15

Approximate amount this would have cost us if we didn't have medical insurance:  $1.4 million

Actual amount this cost us:  about what you would pay to get a nice 10-year old used Honda Civic, plus food and gas for a strange 157-day 10,000-mile-long road trip in which you slept in the car so as not to accrue lodging expenses

Height and Weight time!  Their age-adjusted weight is around the 5th percentile, with Aubrey being a little above and Paige a little below.  Their height is like their weight, right around the 5th percentile. Aubrey has a big head compared to the rest of her body, it's at the 25th percentile.

Aubrey:
     Day 1 -     2 lbs 2 oz     14 inches
     Day 8 -     2 lbs 7 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 11 oz
     Day 27 -   3 lbs 1 oz
     Day 36 -   3 lbs 4 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 7 oz     16 inches
     Day 56 -   4 lbs 0 oz
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 9 oz     16 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 14 oz   17 1/2 inches
     Day 80 -   5 lbs 5 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 14 oz   18 inches
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 6 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 15 oz 
     Day 118 - 7 lbs 6 oz     19 1/2 inches
     Day 126 - 7 lbs 8 oz
     Day 134 - 8 lbs 0 oz     20 1/4 inches

Paige:
     Day 1 -     1 lbs 13 oz   14 1/2 inches
     Day 8 -     1 lbs 12 oz
     Day 17 -   2 lbs 2 oz
     Day 27 -   2 lbs 10 oz
     Day 36 -   2 lbs 13 oz
     Day 46 -   3 lbs 5 oz     16 1/2 inches
     Day 56 -   3 lbs 10 oz
     Day 62 -   4 lbs 1 oz     17 1/2 inches
     Day 72 -   4 lbs 4 oz     18 inches
     Day 80 -   4 lbs 14 oz
     Day 88 -   5 lbs 0 oz     18 inches
     Day 102 - 6 lbs 2 oz
     Day 110 - 6 lbs 7 oz
     Day 118 - 6 lbs 12 oz   19 inches
     Day 126 - 7 lbs 1 oz
     Day 134 - 7 lbs 4 oz     19 3/4 inches